Am I the only one who gets really annoyed about this?
Probably not. The UK, being one of the fattest, unhealthiest, car obsessed countries in the world, seems to be full of "cyclist-beraters".
If it is the law that us drivers have to wear seatbelts why is their safety choice an optional one?
Because they are two different things. By the way, it is also the law that cars have to have fully functional lights, drive at the speed limit, have MOTs and insurance. Not all do so. Does that annoy you too?
IF we knocked a cyclist of his bike and he suffered irreparable brain damage or death as a result of a head injury it is us who would have to live with that guilt, even though they made the choice not to wear a helmet
Is that the Royal We? Or are We thinking that cyclists only cycle because they cannot afford cars? If We knocked a cyclist of his (sic) bike with enough force to cause irreparable brain damage or death, a cycle helmet is highly unlikely to prevent this. They aren't substantial enough.
And are you aware you show sociopathic tendencies in your fixation on your own personal guilt in such a victim blaming statement, but no concern for your hypothetical victim. Btw, do you often go around imagining serious injuries to people? Particularly in connection with your driving? Its a bit disturbing.
Might I suggest you get off your backside, take some exercise, and maybe travel a bit outside your own location and whatever Brit destination you go on holiday, to a country where its considered beneficial to encourage people to cycle. Such as Belgium, Denmark, Germany, The Netherlands - gosh you even see MOTHERS with CHILDREN on CYCLE CARRIERS, some of whom are not wearing helmets.
Best to pack the smelling salts...personally, I think counselling might be worthwhile as well, at least to try and increase your acceptance towards your fellow members of the human race.
ps come near me with your cyclist hating attitude, and I'll sue your ass off. Helmet and all.