I suspect I am being very unreasonable to be even thinking of having a baby now.
Didn't want any more babies but since my period came after a recent pregnancy scare I've been disappointed. The main feeling was relief when I realised my period had arrived but now I'm a bit sad. I think I convinced myself I was pregnant.
Dp feels the same, relief that I wasn't pregnant but a bit sad too.
We've talked about it and he said he was happy to have a baby if that's what I wanted. I don't want to rush into anything rash in case it's my hormones talking or something.
Anyway the reasons why its not a good idea
The timing isn't great, we've only been together 6 months. We're planning on living together in the not too distant future and have talked about getting married eventually.
I have two children already a 7 year old and a 16 year old so I thought my baby days were behind me.
We're both self employed with varying earnings.
We live in a tiny 3 bed house so would have to move eventually
I'm sure there was more than this reason wise.
So come and tell me IABVU and I will stop this silly idea.
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To even be thinking about having a baby now?
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Happydays12345 · 03/10/2013 15:28
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