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To wonder how noisy you are DTD?

32 replies

shewhowines · 01/10/2013 18:01

As a follow up to the loud sneezing thread, it made me wonder about noises people make DTD. Is this involuntary or can people choose the level of noise they make?

I'm very quiet by the way.

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joanofarchitrave · 01/10/2013 22:30

would love to talk more Envy

or else have music on

dh vvvvvv quiet, which I find a bit unnerving. I am generally loudish if things are going well, quiet and ladylike if they're not, very loud if things are really bad.

In my one experience of labour they must have heard me in New York.

ReallyGoodDrawer · 01/10/2013 22:33

I'm quiet. Dh isn't very loud but he does like to talk Hmm sometimes I have to tell him to wheesht cos it puts me off Grin

FortyDoorsToNowhere · 01/10/2013 22:39

I am glad someone posted this.

It really depends.

Friday is the best time to have sex, the women next door is in bingo and to the other side all in work/school and my DC are in school. Which mean we are more carnal.

Try to be quiet most other times.

FortyDoorsToNowhere · 01/10/2013 22:40

I am a freak who sleeps during labour, the gas and air makes me sleep.

fatfingers · 01/10/2013 22:50

I am quite noisy although I don't think I scream! I'm the same in labour and I am a noisy, talkative person generally. I can be quiet if I really try but doing it quietly just isn't as enjoyable for some reason.

peggyundercrackers · 01/10/2013 22:57

im pretty quite until it gets to the crucial part.

I did have a friend who was very loud though and quite dirty with it - when we used to go about together we all went back to someones house one night after being out, so it was well into the wee hours and she had her beau with her and they obviously got round to dtd in their room - all of a sudden there was all this shouting things like fuck me harder, give it to me etc. etc. we all wondered what was going on but once it sank in we were rolling about laughing. the person who owned the house mother got up and she was NOT amused by this as she was an older woman then and not sure if she had ever heard language like that - we all got turfed out - we laughed about it for years

Tuonz · 01/10/2013 22:59

Not always Henrietta, but we do express our love if it's a more romantic session. Or perhaps if we're on the more frisky side of the fence it's more an expression of physical attraction, verbally.

Not for everyone but it's how we roll. When we are talking I think we have lowered our inhibitions and obviously high confidence due to the complements so we let go a bit more and are louder.

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