Just that really
DH surprised me at lunch saying that he has booked us a weekend away to a little cottage for our 10th wedding anniversary. This means that our 4 DCs will be staying with PILs from Friday night till Sunday afternoon. (DH has already arranged this)
My mum found out that this was happening (she asked if she could have a package sent to us for her) She went mental saying that she never left me as a child and I am neglectful leaving my 1 year old twins for so long. She also asked if she could have the DCs for a night but I said no because we have had issues with her being alone with the DCs and I still can't trust her plus the DCs have never stayed with her for more than a few hours where as my eldest two have stayed at PILs many times and the twins have stayed the night before and it was fine.
My mum said that she thought I was a rubbish mum and she was fed up of not being trusted she then left muttering about calling SS.
So AIBU? To go on holiday. We will only be an hour away at the most so we are on hand if anything happens. But I feel guilty now.