Leopoldina. Yup.
Dueling. The reason these kids (my DPs kids already) go to these schools is because they have something in common. Coming from a family where you live a very different life because of the family wealth.
It's done DSS (16) a world of good. He's gone from being a fucking big fish, walking round like he owned the place (at his old school) to nothing special in his new one (not La Rosey, he's in the UK.) He's a much much nicer boy for it. They actually form better relationships with each other because there is no competition over material possesions, or a lot of the "my trainers are better than your trainers, you can't be in my gang" toss that is rife in so many school age children everywhere. Everyone's trainers are the best. They learn to ignore material possesions very quickly, and despite being in a very privileged setting/lifestyle, are often some of the most grounded young people you could ever hope to meet.
DP would make many other parents at that school look poor. His DD (13) is the biggest, scrimpiest bargain hunter ever, and she LOVES "vintage" stuff tat so we often do carboots or markets together, she loves poking through all the stalls, haggling over 50p, filling her room with the bits and pieces she's sought out.
I think there is a massive assumption that rich = spoilt arse. Rich = wasteful on ridiculous luxuries. Actually, not the case, sure we have a tonne of nice things, but we are very, very normal people. And I would hate to be referred to as the elite in society at all. Anyone in our social group would. We wouldn't mix with people who had the ridiculous notion that they were.