My friends all with kids and I have one DC only ever do stuff in couples! Never ever ever do they organise something where their partners don't go a long....I have arranged a girls night for my birthday in the past and still they all brought partners along? So I don't bother now! Well today Karen (not real name) let it slip that there was a night out for Janes (not a real name) birthday was I going I said I haven't even heard anything...she then replied "oh its probably couples only you wouldn't wanna come anyway" and I literally just looked after Janes DC for 6 hours whilst she had her hair done for this couples only night out she didn't tell me she was getting her hair done I just found out from big gob Karen... I am furious and so miffed that I didn't even get the option to decide for myself if I didn't want to go or not! I probably wouldn't have gone or if i did go not enjoy it fully because i'm a bit of a spare part on these nights out as they are all joined to the hip of their partners, Don't know if this is just normal for a singleton to get overlooked just feel so miffed!! Am I being unreasonable to want to poke every single one of them in the eye?! 