Yes soorplum DH and I are "lifestyle" so to speak, although these days Real Life and Five Children tend to get in the way - it's hard to smack someone on the bum with the Woman's Weekly when the cry of "mammmmmmyyyyyy I've pooooooood" can come at any minute 
(and Fifty Shades of Shite is exactly that, there are LOADS of better books out there, both erotica and BDSM/D/s stuff)