V v petty, but we've just been on holiday with 10 friends, we are the only ones with little kids (a couple of the others have older children who didn't come).
Most were great, but one friend in particular spent the whole time telling me how bad my parenting style was and how he would never do what I did etc etc (note: I was just as bad before I had kids - so this isn't the crux of the issue). Including telling me - when I was saying before I had kids I thought they were more compliant - that you get the sort of children you deserve!
He spent all week telling us, they'd fit in with us, do whatever worked for us. We said go ahead and make your own plans and we'll try to fit in depending on naps, tantrums all the usual, and was told no no, we really want you to come we'll work around you. So when they decided to go out for dinner, he booked a really posh restaurant at 8.30 at night - wtf - even if DD does nap she's still in bed by 9.
That afternoon DD didn't want to nap so I apologised and said sorry we won't be able to come, she'll be crashed out by 6. At which point he got into a huge strop and said to DH well are you still coming at least. He said I don't think it would be v fair to leave her all alone on the last night of our holiday do you. They then didn't come back until 1am, by which time we were in bed, and we had to leave fairly early the next morning so only had time for a quick goodbye.
It just left a bit of a sour taste in my mouth if you know what I mean. Hopefully by the next holiday they'll be more kids around, so I can offer them some sage parenting advice. Rant over!