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to be mortified (don't read if you are a bit :-s about toilet talk)

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thatisall · 23/09/2013 12:39

We've moved house and we have a kitten who is using a litter tray. We used to put it by the back door but it isn't an option here so it's in the bathroom which is downstairs (seemed sensible).

A couple of points:

Our kitten likes to kick the contents of her litter tray out of the tray itself and onto the floor, especially at night. Generally speaking it's me that cleans it up as apparently it is invisible to everyone else Hmm

We've fallen behind on the laundry with the move and wet weather so the basket is currently over flowing in the bathroom.

Anyway, I worked all weekend so was out or dashing around from Friday until Sunday night. DD was at XPs and DH was having a weekend off I think (it's about time really but thats another post lol)

On Sunday morning, whilst weeing before running out to work (sorry for visual) I looked around my bathroom. There's laundry spilling out everywhere, no towel and the kitten had done what she does best. Everything needed sorting, but I didn't have time.

Before anyone starts bashing DH, yes he could have done it, but he didn't. Really I'm not fussed, it's not an issue, he needed a weekend off and I'm not down trodden or taken for granted.

Anyway...when I get home DH tells me that when xp arrived he let himself in (DH was upstairs) and allowed his girlfriend who we're told has 'loads of OCDs' to use our bathroom without asking (wtf??? Again that's another post).

I thought I couldn't feel more mortified.
Then he adds "and I'd just used the last of the loo roll.......and I think the bathroom was erm...quite smelly too"

Shall I wait for a letter from Social services or just call them myself? lol

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PostmanPatAlwaysRingsTwice · 23/09/2013 12:51

You're unlikely to be of interest to SS for running out of loo roll or getting behind on your laundry.

What jumped out from your post was your XP letting himself into your house Shock

thatisall · 23/09/2013 13:04

Oh I know don't get me started on that!! We've had words before and it just isn't sinking in.

He just says that dd walks into house so why shouldn't he follow her or that 'dd said i could' which really annoys me.

I'm fighting a losing battle with it I think.

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shrinkingnora · 23/09/2013 13:15

My Dsis's ex husband let himself into her house, cooked a pizza from her freezer and had a nap in her bed. He really couldn't see what he had done wrong.

You know that there were reasons for all of the mess. My house is an utter tip at the moment and is not representative of its usual state. Stay calm and laugh about it...

squeaver · 23/09/2013 13:21

Isn't your door locked?

thatisall · 23/09/2013 13:36

DH was at home. front and back doors both have handles

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