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AIBU?

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To be ultra nosey, and ask Tidydancer for an update on gluezilla

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pigletmania · 21/09/2013 19:46

Been thinking about it all summer. Wonder if Tidy has heard from glue since she got married, an seen t error ofher ways

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SauvignonBlanche · 21/09/2013 21:24

I hope she sees the error of her ways - eventually.

TidyDancer · 21/09/2013 21:30

SauvignonBlanche - I still hope that too, but I don't know. I had limited experience of bridezilla behaviour before all this started so I don't know if some eventually do wake up and realise what they've done. She has upset a fair few people and that's before you factor in the decorating requests.

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pigletmania · 21/09/2013 21:39

My goodness Tidy she really is something isent she

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junkfoodaddict · 21/09/2013 21:55

Can I have the link to part 3 please???????
Just spent 2 hours glued to my laptop reding thread 1 and 2 and howled with laughter!
I feel the need for more information!

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pigletmania · 21/09/2013 21:58

Here we go www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/1817125-TidyDancers-bridezilla-thread-part-3

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onedev · 21/09/2013 22:35

Thanks for the update Tidy - glad the truth is out there.

junkfoodaddict · 21/09/2013 22:45

Bloody hell!!!!
I have finally read the lot! I started at 8:30pm!!
Been on MN for two years + but only found the AIBU section a few weeks ago!!
Am interested to know if you and Gluezilla have had any contact since? I have a friend in Beds (you would think she knew EVERYONE and a serial wedding-goer). Am so tempted to quiz her on any weddings that weekend!!

KatyTheCleaningLady · 21/09/2013 23:33

boardcreche Why?

Neighbourhoodwatchbitch · 21/09/2013 23:37

Boardcreche do you let people walk all over you?! Tidy for prime minister!!!!

CadleCrap · 21/09/2013 23:38

boardcreche Did you read the threads?

SlobAtHome · 21/09/2013 23:50

OK I'm on thread three now. May need to take a break and pick it up tomorrow.

SlobAtHome · 22/09/2013 00:24

fuck I skim read the rest and read Tidys posts. What a hoot.

AlfalfaMum · 22/09/2013 00:41

Wonder if boardcreche has a penchant for glue being a bit of a bridezilla herself?

cg13 · 22/09/2013 08:46

Only been on MN for a couple of months, but have seen references to the "tidydancer threads" and wondered what they were. Having spent ALL my evening skimming through them, I'm not sure what's more notable...gluezilla's complete myopic-ness, or tidy's ability to keep the moral high ground in the face of this. Well done tidy.

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pigletmania · 22/09/2013 09:04

Boardcrech did you read how this person has treated op, that is why she started the initial tread. She as known this woman since junior school, so they go back a long way.

She sees her regularly no falling out and so tidy thinks quite reasonably they are good friends. The friend decides to get married. She sends save the date card to op, op thinks reasonably she will be invited but no. Op does not get an invite. This 'friend' has sent 20 save the dates to people she does not intend to invite, which includes op! Op thinks fair enough but a bit hurt obviously that an old friend should do this. She has invited others who op has not though they were close.

Fast forward it is nearing the wedding. This 'friend' contacts Tidy, not to invite her, but to have the privilege in decorating te venue fir free (tidy is artistic and is good at this kind of thing) so tat te invited guests have a nice experience. Tidy sends a polite reply declining and telling friend in a controlled and polite way how she feels. Friend gets her sister involved to try and change tidy mind, again Tidy declines in a polite and reasonable way. Tidy is obviously hurt by her old friends snub and does not want to be sed by her. Friend does not apologise, she fails to see what she has done wrong, and is behaving in a very self centred way.

So board reach can you understand why tidy is upset and has vented here, unless your bridezilla of course

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pigletmania · 22/09/2013 09:05

Meant used by her

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Bowlersarm · 22/09/2013 09:10

Boardcrech is in a minority of one with her opinion!

prudyklimovitsky · 22/09/2013 09:32

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DirtyBurger · 22/09/2013 09:37

Board are you recently married and was it a very special day?

SPBisResisting · 22/09/2013 09:41

prudy that's all very interesting but what do you think about gluezilla?
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pigletmania · 22/09/2013 09:53

To top it off the friend is adament tat save the date cards are used to announce to everyone your getting married not those you intend to inviteso they can keep note ofte date in their diary. How self absorbed is that. Yes bordcrech is te only one of 5 threads who disagrees with op

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pigletmania · 22/09/2013 10:04

You just don't treat a friend lie that especially someone Whois meant to be an old friend. I think when tidy initially typed her op, she knew the friendship would not be te same, and was very hurt how little her supposed friend thought of her

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TidyDancer · 22/09/2013 10:31

Ooh I missed Board's post last night! I'd be interested to know more from that perspective!

Thanks everyone for the support (especially piglet for the v good summary!). It's nice to hear that I'm not a horrible cow for not doing what was asked of me!

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pigletmania · 22/09/2013 11:15

Your welcome tidy, no I would feel exactly the same as you, but I would have not been as polite as you

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