Supposed to be going out on a trip today, the thing we are doing happens on the hour.
Me. They go on the hour every hour from 11am
DH. Let's aim for 12 or 1 then
Me. let's aim for 12
DH. 12 or 1
There then follows a brief discussion of me saying 'well 12, let's aim for 12'
And DH saying '12 or 1' which he says is basically the same thing but I was being negative. 'ok' I say, '12 or 1 then' When I suggest to him that if they are the same thing then me saying 12 is not an issue at all and I can't understand why he would think my response was a negative one unless perhaps he really wants to go at one but then why not say so in the first place?
He tells me I am negative a lot. I can't seem to respond to anything he says without him saying I am bing negative and frankly it's getting on my tits now.
AIBU to find this really upsetting as it feels like any response I give to anything is going to be considered negative but I definitely don't want to be in a position where I just respond 'yes' to everything.