I have a lovely lodger. Keeps herself to herself, friendly, and just generally lovely. She has a BF who is normally fine. She usually asks if he can stay over once a week and I've always been fine with this. However this morning I wanted to kill him. Background is I'm 17 weeks pregnant and a school teacher. I have a huge workload and I'm exhausted anyway. My alarm goes off at 6.30 every day. This morning I was woken before 6am by the door to my lodger's room being opened so forcibly it sounded as if it was almost pulled off its hinges (wasn't thankfully). DH went downstairs at 7am to get breakfast and said our lodger had gone to work but her BF was still there. He was just leaving an shouted out bye as he went. AIBU to be really angry about this? He didn't know if I was awake so why yell out? And why can be never open a simple door without it sounding like he hasn't bothered to turn the handle and is actually just yanking it open [confused][confused][confused]