My friend is the loveliest person I know. There's genuinely not a bad bone in her body and I know for a fact that if I need her and she could help them she would. And the same goes for me to her.
She's been through some hard times, much of it before I knew her tbh and I have had a rough time of things recently and she's always there to listen which I do appreciate, and she knows this.
My problem is that I'm starting to feel suffocated a little by her.
She constantly texts, first thing in a morning til last thing at night, usually asking how I am etc which makes me feel worse as sometimes..... well I just don't feel like explaining myself! I know I sound a cow but it's becoming too much. I usually do reply and then we start a dialogue but I work full time in a high pressure job, have 2 little ones and do it all solo and sometimes it just gets irritating the constant demand for me to be texting.
There always some drama going on and I'm feel like I'm always trying to help her fix her life and whilst I love being her friend, it's exhausting. We've only known each other a year or so and it's been full on since day one.
I know I should he grateful that someone cares about me but I think I'd just like a little advice on how to back off from this without hurting her feelings! I'm quite happy with my own company (only child!) and am beginning to dread my phone binging!
Oh, I know i am being mean too. I really don't mean to be 