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Is the homework 'to research Ian McEwan suitable for an 11year old?'

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Jellybeanz1 · 17/09/2013 19:38

My daughters yr 7 class has started reading Ian McEwan's The Daydreamer ; for homework they have been told to research him. I then found my dh consoling my daughter as she was distressed with something that she had read re: The Cement Garden which comes up as a prominent feature when you google it. The review comes up straight away. It contain issues of incest Shock (brother and sister). She has a db and I don't want to visualising this, even if she hadn't I wouldn't. Also a murdered parent under the floor. I thought Jaqualine Wilson had some tricky issues (which she has enjoyed). Should I write a few lines in her English book or a letter. She has just moved up to this school so I don't know any teachers yet. Is the Teacher BU to set this research with no warnings or is this what her age should be considering? It was only 6 months ago we signed the form for sex education. This seems to be progressing too far too fast.

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marienbadmadsad · 17/09/2013 22:44

eddiemairswife-i am a veteran insomniac and On Chesil Beach was subliterary zopiclone

friday16 · 17/09/2013 22:44

Why bother writing if everything you write is miserable.

That Primo Levi? He should have written more comedy, I always think.

marienbadmadsad · 17/09/2013 22:57

Friday-I wished he had lived longer to find the comedy in hissituation

lessonsintightropes · 17/09/2013 23:43

I wrote my A level Lit dissertation on Ian McEwan with the thesis that he's a nasty misogynist and having tried to reread various later publications haven't revised this opinion. I would be extremely unhappy with any child reading The Cement Garden under the age of 16 - I think to an immature mind it could be extremely disturbing. Not unreasonable at all to have a quiet word with the teacher and to challenge why it's been set for 11 year olds - but agree with PP that it sounds like an oversight by someone who's read Atonement and possibly Chessil Beach without a more thorough investigation of his back catalogue. Lazy.

SarahAndFuck · 17/09/2013 23:46

Researching Ian McEwan isn't suitable for anyone OP! Shock

YANBU Grin

friday16 · 17/09/2013 23:51

On Chesil Beach's main problem is that it's crap. It reads like the sort of nonsense that the elderly John Fowles wrote, with enough pathetic fallacy to make you think the rustle of the pages as you read is the rustle of sheets as they fail in their lovemaking. Even in the past of 1962, the year before sex was invented, is a crap shag on their wedding night really a plausible basis for a lifetime of anguish? Really?

HopeClearwater · 18/09/2013 00:01

YANBU I'd be straight in there to complain. The early short stories are not all suitable for year 7s. First Love Last Rites and In Between The Sheets contain stories about paedophilia, a teenage boy raping his younger sister (in the name of experimentation) and the making of a porn film. Literary merit they may have, but it's not for year 7s to discover. The teacher probably knows bog all about McEwan past the set text.

ThePuffyShirt · 18/09/2013 00:13

I'd be amazed if my 11 yr old was reading Ian Mckewan.

He has regressed and is reading Gangsta Granny!

eddiemairswife · 18/09/2013 00:33

marienbad I had to google zopiclone Grin. I was very much around in 1962 and the naivety of the couple just didn't ring true.

marienbadmadsad · 18/09/2013 00:43

eddiemairswife-i was conceveived in 1962-Iknow my parents were gagging for legal sex. I was the unhappy result!

sashh · 18/09/2013 05:53

Your daughter needs to do her homework, ie research the person not the works other than listing them.

HmmAnOxfordComma · 18/09/2013 07:13

They're not reading The Cement Garden or In Between The Sheets. They're reading The Daydreamer which is to all intents and purposes a children's book. My ds studied it in yr 7. It's a lovely book.

The biographical research is the 'controversial' issue if there is one.

soontobeburns · 18/09/2013 08:17

I cant say if you are or are not being unreasonable as I have never heard of him or the book.

But I did jusr go onto amazon and ordered it for myself Grin

valiumredhead · 18/09/2013 08:25

Remus is right, lazy homework!

Puffa-mine has regressed too, it's ridiculous how many times that child can read diary of a wimpy kidHmm

valiumredhead · 18/09/2013 08:26

Puffy not puffaGrin

valiumredhead · 18/09/2013 08:28

On a similar note, in year 5 ds was told to google Frieda Kahlo's paintings, not sure who thought that was a good idea...

MaidOfStars · 18/09/2013 09:46

valiumredhead Someone who thought Georgia O'Keefe was a little risqué?

friday16 · 18/09/2013 11:16

Y7 Art Homework:

"Here are some pictures of flowers, showing natural objects can appear almost abstract when photographed in a heightened style. Now, see if you can find other photographs that Mr, er, Mapplethorpe took and bring them in to the lesson on Friday".

KoalaFace · 18/09/2013 11:33

YANBU. Just because I don't like McEwan and can't think of any reason to subject children to his overly macabre and "controversial" yawn work.

I studied The Cement Garden at university (for a course about childhood in fiction) and I felt at 20 that I was too young for it! I hated every bloody page.

I read Atonement because it was recommended and I only despised that marginally less.

lottiegarbanzo · 18/09/2013 11:52

Every now and then I come on a thread like this and say 'don't be so silly, of course teenagers should be reading and discussing that, how else will they ever learn or express anything?'.

This time though.... Ian McEwan's early work is really dark and disturbing. I would not like an 11yo to read The Comfort of Strangers or to have to try to explain that to them. A Child in Time wouldn't make any sense and Cement Garden is grim.

All fine for late teens and I wouldn't be shocked about a well read 13yo reading most things really but, developmentally, 11 is very different from 13 (and that's writing from my experience as a girl, who are on average more mature at 13 I think).

They should stick to Lord of the Flies if they want something provoking. I'm serious, at least there's no incestuous or masochistic sex!

So yes, lazy homework topic and, while writing a very basic biography of McEwan (dates, education, some titles, prizes), would seem harmless, if not very informative in itself, I would raise with the teacher the issue of what anyone compiling a list of his books would come across.

snickersnacker · 18/09/2013 12:23

OP - as an English teacher, I implore you to read the story first and, if you decide the complain, to make it absolutely clear that you object to the homework, not the text.

We choose texts really carefully and we do tackle difficult subjects in a carefully managed, supportive context. It's such an important part of English at secondary level and it's crucial that schools and teachers aren't restricted only to teaching bloody Skellig in year 7.

valiumredhead · 18/09/2013 12:27

Arf@Mr MapplethorpeGrin

marienbadmadsad · 18/09/2013 12:49

Hope that Mr Gove is lurking on this thread and getting some good tips for fun Friday Art curriculum

marzipanned · 18/09/2013 12:56

Great post snickersnacker.

valiumredhead · 18/09/2013 13:10

Am I the only person who can't stand his books? Atonement is the only example of the film being better than the book!

I know I'm in the minority...Grin