arr i cant beleive im having this conversation.. now at least...
ds1, who is 7 cam up to me after we got home from school, talking about his "girlfriend" A, so casually asked questions, what is she like, etc, he brought up kiss chase and how "shes so funny, she waits till have to catch m y breath than kiss's me on my back" that how he wants to marry her when he is an adult becasue shes beautifull and clever.
now, i know this is all inocent, and in a way it is sweet but hes my baby, and it feels to young for him to even be thinking about this stuff.
that said, iv always said/felt that i wanted to install into my sons how to treat thier otherhalfs with respect.
but how do you go about installing that into them? im a single mum with little male influance around them and this is something im completely baffled by.
its not like they can learn from my relationship..as there isnt one....
this converasion just made me realize that hes getting older and will in the next5 year have a girlfriend... and i dont want him ending up being an entilted twat....
why cant children come with manuals?