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Eliza73 · 16/09/2013 19:43

I'm fuming with dh at the moment. I had a hospital appt today and it wasn't anything stressy but dh said he would drive me there in his work van to save on petrol , parking and finding a place to park . He texted me this morning from work to ask if I still wanted him to and I said not to if he was busy. He said he wasnt at all and would be back by midday. I had to leave just after. Anyway it got to 12.30 and I decided I would have to go myself or I would be late and miss my appt. I couldn't get hold of him although he rang as I was driving off but I couldn't answer then. When I got back he was really moody and said I had wasted his time , although I had told him not to worry about it and there was a reason I had to go when I did and perhaps he could have just let me know if he couldn't make it. He's now gone back to work after making out he's suddenly got loads of work to do and couldn't do it because I'd dragged him home. I just find he's constantly turning the smallest things into something huge just to have a go at me , but if I try and talk it over he just accuses me of going on about it and that its not convenient to talk. He'll let me know when. :( surely its not me !!

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FetchezLaVache · 16/09/2013 19:47

He was, but it's something that should be filed under "neither nowt nor summat" and instantly forgotten about. It does indeed sound like he's trying to find things to row about. Sorry to hear it. Also reckon the not wanting to discuss it now, but at a later point in time when convenient to him, is a bit of a red flag too, FWIW.

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