Ok briefly I was with someone, he got a bit controlling and we had argument after argument. Then few months ago we split up. He was still talking to me but as far as I am aware he was living the typical single life.
He asked me to get back together a few weeks a go, thing is, I said yes but I am struggling with my gut. I do love him an at the time the break was for the best because we were arguing an wasn't good for either of us or my dc.
However he doesn't nor did he live with me then , but things seem different to me. He still seems to be making plans like he would if he were single. Going out a lot more on his own, sometimes he says he has no money yet he manages to go out.
I don't want to seem like a nag, and I do believe he loves me but really AIBU to think that he wants to have his cake an eat it. I basically feel like he tells me so much of the truth but not the whole truth, only about money and when he goes out. About times ect...
I no this will be the break up of us, I don't no if it me just being paranoid because of what happened before we split up or I have a right to tell him how I feel.
He thinks whenever I open my mouth that I am picking at him. But I just want to tell him, and because of certain things it makes it hard to trust. Maybe you lovely people can tell me to either put up or shut up. Just need opinions please ...however brutal