To wonder if it is pointless going on a date with someone you are not attracted to?

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I mean, surely its pretty rare to fall for someone you never fancied to start with?

You have to have some sort of attraction before, surely? AIBU to believe this?

Ive been asked out on a date, the man seems really nice. But I look at him and think 'I dont fancy you' even though he is alright looking.

It would be a waste of time going, or am I being pessimistic?

Go go go! And then tell us how it went

DH was my friend before we got together... it was a slow creeping realisation that I loved him (well about 3 months). After which I prompted him when pissed on New Years Eve to propose (which he duly did) as I couldn't imagine being married to anyone else!

Thank you. Ive changed my mind about fifty thousand times today. Im going to go out with him but ask if we can go in a few weeks. My ex only just moved out, I desperately need to feel single for a bit first.

But ultimately, yes I will be going. Thanks to this thread!