I used to always put the effort in to look nice, it always made me feel bright and happy. Then when I was pg I put on a lot of weight later in pregnancy (suffered hyperemesis first few months that was managed with medication). I then suffered horrendous pnd (still feel it now sometimes).
However, the past few months have been a real turning point for me, my pnd is manageable, I've lost a load of weight and am starting to feel more like me. As a treat (we're not exactly loaded) I bought a few new items of clothing (none of my old ones really fit). One of which I loved. It's a dress that's smart for work but can also be dressed up to wear out. Which I did. huge mistake. DH, DM,DS (2) and I went out for dinner. DS wanted lasagna. I laid a napkin out on my lap to catch any flying food as I was sitting next to him. Right on cue a lump landed in my lap. It however soaked through the napkin into my dress. I changed the napkin straight away and tried to remove the stain have washed it but it's stained. 
I feel gutted. I get something new (rare) that doesn't make me feel like a fat lump (rarer), and after two wears its ruined. I know its extremely shallow but I just feel so sad.