In real need of help/advise, my lg is just over 10 weeks old me and her father do not live together but are sort of in a relationship. Sorry will be a long post... When I was pregnant I paid for everything all her needs ( I worked part time £100 a week he worked full time on a good wage ) didn't help pay for anything apart from 4 baby grows. I live with my mother and I'm her carer so we are close. He now gives me £140 a month which im grateful for as babys are expensive... but he isn't capable of looking after her on his own! He dosnt know how to do bottles, anything part from how to feed her and change her nappy what still with cream seems difficult for him! I understand that he only sees her weekends so he won't be as experienced with her but even his temper when he's pushing the pram scares me! And uses one hand on main road pushes and lets go!! He wants her to stay at his but he has nothing at his house for her, not a thing! I think he's starting to understand that I can't just take everything up on the bus that the baby needs! But now he's demanding time alone saying he will take her from me and spend time with her. But as I said before he dosnt know what to do with her and he will kick off with anyone on the street or give them a reason to kick off with him, Even if shes with him, i know it must break his heart not being with us but I have to think of my daughters well being and benefit now and not his feelings! Can anyone give advise on what to say or do? Am I being unreasonable? ( my mother also feels the same as me and think he needs to grow up as he's 25) also he dosnt sleep here and isn't allowed as benefit people had a phone call saying he lives with me and now they are watching! From my rant this proves its a pack of lies! Somebody please help me :( feeling so low now it's a argument every day now, thank you xxx