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AIBU?

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To enjoy this barmy collection of birthday presents from MIL?

68 replies

DorothyBastard · 04/09/2013 07:27

I am extremely lucky to have a completely brilliant MIL (a fact in reminded of every time I read a thread about someone else's batshit crazy MIL on here). I landed on my feet, especially given the fact I fell pregnant only 5 weeks after meeting her son. She has been nothing but kind, warm, welcoming, and good company; and is an excellent Nana to my DD.

However, her choice of gifts is, erm, unique. To say the least. She seems to have a habit of giving me an 'eclectic mix' of little things - at Christmas everything was red and included a pack of paper napkins as a particular highlight.

Today is my birthday. Her present to me (all presented in a beautiful gift bag) consists of the following:

  • small box of daim mikado (yum)
  • small box of cheese crumbles (double yum)
  • two 'snack packs', one of dried fruit, one of nuts
  • handbag sized pack of tissues
  • hamster shaped post it notes (I don't own any pets and have never expressed any interest in hamsters, love a good post it though)
  • (the piece de resistance) a foam, half-face ladybird mask.

All topped off with a card that says on the front "happy birthday oh gorgeous one".

So AIBU to eat daim bar mikados for breakfast while wearing a ladybird mask and writing myself little hamster-based post it notes, all the while wiping away my years of joy using my little pack of tissues?

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DorothyBastard · 04/09/2013 07:32

I am reliably informed the post its are in fact guinea pigs, not hamsters. Shows what I know!

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softlysoftly · 04/09/2013 07:32

Brilliant. I always want to know the thought process behind stuff like this

Binkyridesagain · 04/09/2013 07:34

Happy Birthday, here's some Thanks for your lady bird. Your gift sounds fun enjoy it.

GreetingsFrontBottom · 04/09/2013 07:34

(the piece de resistance) a foam, half-face ladybird mask.

Please can we see a pic Grin

Pagwatch · 04/09/2013 07:35

Excellent presents Grin

Jaynebxl · 04/09/2013 07:36

Fantastic! Can I have your MIL? Mine just sends a cheque which isn't very exciting.

openerofjars · 04/09/2013 07:37

My MIL, similarly ace, does this! For Christmas five years ago everything was lime green, apart from a Take That CD single. It was great! My birthday present this year included a small bottle of gin and a flower vase made of glass blobs, no reason.

Your MIL sounds awesome. Grin

Weegiemum · 04/09/2013 07:38

I think we really need to see a pic of you enjoying your gifts!!

Caitycat · 04/09/2013 07:38

Are you my sil? She sounds very much like my mum who feels no Xmas day is complete unless everyone has received their own packet of novelty tissues!

CombineBananaFister · 04/09/2013 07:38

haha Grin that's brilliant - she does indeed sound a bit odd but perfectly caring (the thought that counts and all that). Can i say op as well how refreshing that you're so good-humoured about it as this could easily have been one of those spiteful 'Mil doesn't get me threads'.
Sometimes mils are just a bit mental (different generation) not necessarily nasty.

headlesslambrini · 04/09/2013 07:38

how fabulous! I bet you look forward to opening her presents the most.

PaleHousewifeOfCumbriaCounty · 04/09/2013 07:39

Amazing. Simply amazing!

CombineBananaFister · 04/09/2013 07:40

( Btw I think my Mil is secretly trying to turn me into a Kardashian-everything I get is leopard print ?!?)

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StillNoFuckingEyeDeer · 04/09/2013 07:43

Your MIL sounds great!

HairyPotter · 04/09/2013 07:43

Hamster post its? That's too funny! Bless her. I would need to see the ladybird mask before passing comment on it though. Grin

dexter73 · 04/09/2013 07:44

That sounds like a great present! I strangely want some hamster post-it notes now.

firesidechat · 04/09/2013 07:50

I put novelty tissues in my grown up children's stockings.

I need help don't I?

DorothyBastard · 04/09/2013 07:52

I don't know how to do pictures but this is the mask. I've been wearing it for 6mo DD who thinks it's roundly hilarious.

In fact, thinking about it, that's probably why she bought it, to make DD laugh. Still no explanation for the guinea pig post its though Grin

And yes, she is totally aces and I look forward to her gifts as they're guaranteed to raise a bemused smile.

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WaitMonkey · 04/09/2013 07:52

Best gifts ever. It's my birthday soon and I want exactly the same as you. Grin I only seem to get very dull things, no imagination my family. Sad Grin

Hooleywhipper · 04/09/2013 07:53

Fantastic, what excellent gifts !!! Have a very happy birthday & enjoy your breakfast!!

WaitMonkey · 04/09/2013 07:54

I want that Mask.Envy

JeffActually · 04/09/2013 07:55

My MIL always sends a big box of hotel chocolat chocs. Birthday, Christmas, Mothers day and when I give birth Grin

WaitMonkey · 04/09/2013 07:57

Oh yes. and happy birthday. Sorry I can only offer Wine, Cake, Bear and Thanks .

SecretLimonadeDrinker · 04/09/2013 08:03

Happy birthday Dorothy!

They sound amazing, I too want some guinea pig postits!