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so when the UN actually does come out and state that yes, Assad has used chemical weapons on his own people - what then? more nothing? more "lets look the other way because its nothing to do with us?"
lets allow genocide to happen because its not happening here and doesnt affect us? ^
are you even reading what people are saying?
People are not refusing to help because "it's nothing to do with us". They are not "looking the other way and letting genocide happen". They don't know how to stop it!
What do you think we should do? You say not troops on the ground. So what, air strikes? Against whom? How? you want to remove Assad, but replace him with what? You want to do all this and increase the chances of other terrorist factions increasing in power, without knowing if it will make things better or worse in the long run?
I wish to God there were things we could do that would help. But jumping in just to be seen to be doing 'something' so that we're not 'turning a blind eye' is not the way. You don't seem to be going any further in thinking that bad things are happening so we must do something, even though there is nothing clear that would help. Everyone wants to help if there were a way. Nobody is insensible to the suffering. But nobody wants to make things much, much worse, either.
Humanitarian aid after the fact is not just way of 'appeasing our consciences that we did nothing' - that implies that there was something we could/should have done, but didn't. there isn't, not at this point. Providing resources to countries who have to cope with refugees, providing whatever aid we can to the people there, that is doing something.
And keep reviewing the options, continually, and seeing if there ever is a time when intervention might seem like a better solution than it does at the moment.
If you have a situation with various complicated options, you can't just keep looking at it and saying 'I don't want any of those, I want it to be like this, a situation where we can help'. We all want there to be something we can do to help, but you have to face the reality of this situation, not just imagining something else and arguing on the basis of that.