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To think apologising for spelling mistakes in a post is over the top

42 replies

Honkyponk · 25/08/2013 14:46

We're all on phones, gadgets, laptops and the like. We might be typing and feeding a bub with the other hand. Lets hope no one is driving and typing...... But please, AIBU to think that no one cares if you get some letters wrong or do a typo. Stop clogging up threads with apologies.

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AnyoneButLulu · 25/08/2013 21:55

Yes Limited, I'd never venture to correct someone IRL because the best case outcome is that mingled thanks-but-you're-a-twat emotion, but on the Internet it really doesn't matter, in half an hour's time they'll have forgotten who the bitch was who corrected them but the knowledge will still be there.

usualsuspect · 25/08/2013 21:57

Trust me they won't forget.

JaquelineHyde · 25/08/2013 22:01

What is this 'bub' you speak of and should I be feeding it anything special?

Is this an MN thing like the scarf and the haircut or naice ham?

dyslexicdespot · 25/08/2013 22:07

At the risk of sounding like a broken record- it is incredibly rude and passive aggressive to correct the spelling of another adult.

Everyone should be able to participate in a public forum (regardless of potential disabilities poor typing, grammar or having English as an additional language) without being ridiculed for something that they might not be able to help.

If you are unable to read a post because of the OP poor spelling, move on!

usualsuspect · 25/08/2013 22:10

It is rude, and I don't for now minute think that posters correct others spellings for 'their own good'

They do it to score points most of the time.

limitedperiodonly · 25/08/2013 22:14

I definitely do it to score points.

'your a belend' would be triple word score Grin

dyslexicdespot · 25/08/2013 22:15

Yup, too true unusualsuspect.

Petty small minded, nasty behaviour that perpetuates the ridiculous myth that being able to spell 'correctly' is somehow synonymous with being intelligent.

Vivacia · 25/08/2013 22:17

Three things bug me. Firstly, using "advice" and "advise" wrong. Secondly, using "ect" when they mean "etc" and thirdly, wrongly used question marks. For example, "help me decide whether to LTB?".

ChaosTrulyReigns · 25/08/2013 22:20

Some psoters think that they will be perceived as inferior if they can't spell.

Really, some of us can't be arsed to type proper.

valiumredhead · 25/08/2013 22:21

I agree OP!

dyslexicdespot · 25/08/2013 22:21

This might help Vivacia:

The British Dyslexia Ass

internationallove985 · 25/08/2013 22:25

I always apologise for spelling mistakes. I'd rather do that then a fellow poster point it out. xx

catham · 25/08/2013 22:28

i do think we need a quick edit function, i sometimes make silly mistakes like say of instead of is and it's just that i'm typing so fast, previewing just takes my thoughts away and i wonder if i should post at all. just hitting post message is much more fun

acer12 · 25/08/2013 22:33

The thing is with spelling mistakes snd the like is if your having a heated discussion, certain posters mock spelling and grammer and belittles the poster that way.

It very fucks me off!

AnyoneButLulu · 25/08/2013 23:38

I definitely agree that there are more corrections than there is any reasonable justification for - the possibly justifiable "you are clearly a very literate person who has never seen that particular phrase written down and may welcome being informed" cases are vanishingly rare.

I haven't actually seen any of the "I dislike this person's argument therefore I'm going to slate their typing" examples for ages though - maybe I'm just staying away from the threads that kick off.

And on the bright side, if you consider the thousands of typos/SPAG errors made each day and the thousands of posters who see each one, the number that actually result in someone getting arsey are tiny - it makes the SPAG police literally one in a million.

Vivacia · 26/08/2013 12:15

Absolutely acer and I agree with AnyoneBut that thankfully you don't get much of that.

Thank you for the links dyslexicdespot and I get your point, which is why I never comment when I see these mistakes.

I think people write their corrections as a knee-jerk reaction to seeing their mistake pop up on the screen. You've posted your correction before thinking about it!

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