I?ve namechanged for this as it doesn?t just involve me.
My little brothers girlfriend text me last night to go for a drink this afternoon. When I got there I bought her drink and as soon as I put down she became very hostile. She accused me of having an ?emotional affair? with him. I had no idea what she was talking about (I?d never even heard the term before and genuinely pleaded ignorance) and this seemed further irritate her but she continued to become increasingly more aggressive as the ?conversation? continued. However I quickly finished my drink and left, she spoke to me as if I was having a real affair with him.
I?ve googled it and I still don?t really understand what one is, DP thinks she is just a insecure lunatic and is stirring trouble (she did choose to meet me at the same time as Tottenham were playing ensuring my brother wasn?t there). From what I can tell it seems to be something where one person confides in another. My brother is very close to me, he does seeks me out for advice on his problems and issues (some of which are trivial but he is only 19yo so I don't mind really) and has told me things that no-one else knows about him and his life but I don?t understand what an ?emotional affair? really is or what I?ve done wrong if anything.