AIBU? My friend's baby is due soon, in a conversation with friends she said she wanted no one else's child near her baby whilst it's a newborn. I was the only one with a child out of those particular friends although I know she has friends with older children.
She wants people to visit her and the baby when it's born, my DS will be 10 months. Do I find a sitter (I have lots of family who always want to spend time with him) and visit her or do I take offense and refuse to go until she 'allows' my DS near her baby? I'm inclined to tell her nicely that she should give me a ring when she's happy to take the baby out and DS and I will meet her somewhere. Its really annoyed me, I feel like I'm being a bit PFB about it but I know she is! This probably seems trivial but it's the most recent of a long line of irritating, usually judgy, statements she's been making lately.
She's met my DS loads of times, I couldn't get rid of her when he was a newborn.
Help!