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AIBU in thinking I was being amusing???

49 replies

oldgrandmama · 09/08/2013 15:48

Some years back, after several exploratory operation involving general anaesthetics I was told I needed 'It ALL Taken Away' ... womb, ovaries, cervix, because of 'pre-pre cancerous signs'. Not happy, but consultants know best ... Was booked into a very posh London hospital, 'cos I had medical insurance (those were the days ...) Very nice lady gynaecologist who was doing the surgery, also rather stern lady anaesthetist visited me prior to op. On day of the surgery, I was dreading the whole thing, of course, but thought I'd lighten things up. My right hip was buggered, and I knew I'd sooner or later need a hip replacement. So just for a laugh, I stuck a little yellow 'Post It' note onto my right hip, just below my 'lady bits', saying 'Dear Operating Theatre, while you're at it, would you do a quick hip replacement at the same time?'

Next day, through a haze of morphine, I appreciated the gynaecologist's visit, when she said my note made her and the theatre staff laugh. But the lady anaesthetist also visited, fiddled with my morphine pump, and told me through gritted teeth that my Post It note was NOT funny and all it showed was that I had 'a very flippant attitude'.

I still think it was funny, and no, before you jump to conclusions, the morphine pump still worked fine.

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Justforlaughs · 09/08/2013 15:50

Write another post it note saying "needed, a sense of humour" and stick it to her forehead next time you see her Grin

Justforlaughs · 09/08/2013 15:50

Hope you are ok, btw Thanks

aturtlenamedmack · 09/08/2013 15:53

It was funny. The anaesthetist must have had a sense of humour bypass.
You should have suggest she had a few pulls on her laughing gas!

MrsTerryPratchett · 09/08/2013 15:54

I think it was fucking hilarious.

BlingLoving · 09/08/2013 15:54

Really sorry to derail your thread... but why is it necessary to specify "lady gynacologist" and "lady anaesthetist"? I don't see how that has any impact on the story.

mynameisslimshady · 09/08/2013 15:57

Really sorry to derail, but why is it relevant that the post it note was yellow? Grin

Thats hilarious op, I admire your sense of humour.

FruOla · 09/08/2013 15:58

Heavens above - I think that was hilarious, and clearly so did the majority of the surgeons/theatre staff. Good for you! Grin

What a humourless anaesthetist Hmm

Abra1d · 09/08/2013 15:58

Usually the gasmen and women seem to have great SOHs. I wonder why she didn't?

WilsonFrickett · 09/08/2013 16:01

Well it made me laugh and I have an excellent sense of humour Grin

Groovee · 09/08/2013 16:02

That is funny. Grin

TylerHopkins · 09/08/2013 16:04

Brilliant Grin

YellowDinosaur · 09/08/2013 16:06

I'm a surgeon. I'd find that funny. So would most of the people i've worked with, surgeons and anaesthetists. She was a miserable humourless witch, imho.

oldgrandmama · 09/08/2013 16:08

Oh hell, am I being sexist/Post-It colourist/whateverthehellist? The Post It note was ... a certain colour ... and the anaesthetics,gynaecologist was ... either male or female. By the way, the surgeon who later did my very successful hip replacement was a transexual, and frankly, so what - she did a fabulous job. I may no longer have any 'lady bits' but I've a brilliant metal hip and the ONLY things I can't do any more are run for the bus or do an impromptu Can-Can on the table during drunken press trips - apparently that's what probably did for my right hip.

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Thumbwitch · 09/08/2013 16:09

Very funny! SOH bypass definitely in place with the anaesthetist there.

Mind, you'd have been shocked rigid if they HAD done it!Grin

A good comeback would have been "well they say laughter is the best medicine" :)

wonkylegs · 09/08/2013 16:10

She was probably just having a bad day, I know lots of anaesthetists & other docs as friends and most have lovely (if awful medical senses of humour).
My DH has a terrible sense of humour (think 5yo) and has a laugh with certain patients who appreciate it, in the right circumstances to put them as ease as usually if you are seeing him you are having some very serious work done, which can be quite scary.

MikeOxard · 09/08/2013 16:15

OP you're funny and well done for brightening their day, except the miserable one, she's clearly a knob.

namechangeforthispost864269 · 09/08/2013 16:19

some people have no sense of humour

when i worked on a surgical ward my dh then needed surgery and got sent to my ward (i was on days off when he had surgery done and went with him) when he came back from theatre he proposed to me as soon as he woke up (lol while he was high on drugs in my workplace)

I took him straight out ring shopping the next day before he realised the error of his ways

it was a bit of a joke at work and about a week later I was prepping the patient for theatre the patient and his dw were both nervous so I was having a chat and joke with them when the anaethetist turned up.

I told the couple in a jokey way he was a really good anaethetist because my dp proposed to me after he had drugged him.

the couple found it funny the dw joking saying she was expecting a holiday promise when dh returned from theatre...

the anaethetist then followed me out to tell me in quite a grumpy way I shouldn't promise them a holiday afterwards??!! he then went back to explain to the couple that might not actually happen.

we were all a bit Hmm

I think what you did was funny some people just don't get humour

LittleprincessinGOLDrocks · 09/08/2013 16:22

That is funny. You now have me wondering if I can do something similar when I go for my op...
I'm afraid some anaesthetists are an odd breed. I have met some fabulous ones, but I have also met loads who have no sense of humour. They tended to be the ones who would say the patient needs XYZ medications before theatre and disappear without actually prescribing them.

TheFallenNinja · 09/08/2013 16:28

I've always said that if I had to have a GA for any reason I would write "not the bollocks" in permanent marker on my forehead.

Not that I don't trust em, but ...

FruOla · 09/08/2013 17:29

"By the way, the surgeon who later did my very successful hip replacement was a transexual, and frankly, so what - she did a fabulous job." I've heard about this hip surgeon from a few friends, apparently she's one of the best hip surgeons in the country.

This has just reminded me, a few years ago DP needed minor surgery on his knee. Our hospital is reasonably local to where we live; as DP was talking to the anaesthetist they realised they recognised each other, but couldn't quite work out where/how they'd met before. Finally, they established that DP used to go to a shop where he had been served by the anaesthetist. It turned out that the anaesthetist's DW owned a shop and her anaesthetist DH would help out behind the counter sometimes.

HoikyPoiky · 09/08/2013 17:43

I don't mind humourless anaesthesiologists but I did object to the one I had who had extremely dirty nails. Angry. I didn't say anything this was pre Mumsnet days. I was young and too nice so I was angry at myself too.

HoikyPoiky · 09/08/2013 17:44

You can google the Doctor mentioned below. Good for her, she is a great role model.

cathpip · 09/08/2013 17:47

I'm giggling, my friend recently went in to have her entire bowel removed, she offered to bake the team a cake as the op was a long one and she thought they might like a break! they thought she was funny, some people have no sense of humour.

IsisOhIsis · 09/08/2013 19:37

Yanbu, that is definitely amusing. Most of the anaesthetists I've met have been lovely with gsoh, and the surgeons tend to be twats less humorous. You were unlucky

quoteunquote · 09/08/2013 19:46

Pre my mastectomy (of very large breast), I mentioned to the room maybe I should of joined weight watchers that week, most of them found it funny.