to ask you what are the feeding rules for a 2 year old?

[Cailinsalach]

I am very excited (tena lady emocion). My dgd is coming to visit me for a week. It will be the first time on our own since she was a few months old.
So what should I feed her? Or rather, what should I avoid?
I often see disparaging remarks about Fruit Shoots. Is weak squash ok? Milk? Fizzy pop is out, I know that one.
I thought dinners like cottage pie, pasta, lots of vegetables and lean meat. Fruit for pudding, occasional ice cream for a treat.
Is tinned tuna ok? Fish fingers?(I worry about bones you see). Where do we stand on cheese and yoghurts?
Lord, I hope she survives! My lovely DIL is so good to let me have her and I would hate to hand her back in less than perfect condition.
So what do you think? What are the unobvious no nos?

Beastofburden, thanks! DS refuses point blank to eat porridge so now he's past 18mo I've given in and he gets cheerios (which is what they give them at nursery - his head has been turned). At least its not cheesy wotsits I suppose.

Thanks for all your responses. I hardly ever use salt or anything processed. I try to eat as healthily as I can as I have a tendency to pile on weight.
In my day we just fed our children " good food". Natural homemade honest old fashioned grub. Nothing frozen or packaged. When pregnant I was advised to eat lots of liver and pate for the iron and lots of cheese, soft,hard or crram for the calcium. Alcohol was limited to a glass of guinness a day during pregnancy and breastfeeding, unless it was a Saturday night. A couple of whiskeys but definitely no more.
So you see how times and advice has changed? I just need a little direction regarding the unobvious stuff for my little dgd. You have all been wonderful. Thank you so much.

I love the fact I am the brave end of normal !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!