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who is being unreasonable here ( I think its him)

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JustforMe · 03/08/2013 11:34

Ok so im getting married in a couple of weeks and everything is paid for just counting down the days.

My dad decides to ask who is goin from our side and I tell him that its him my aunt both nans my mother and a couple of my mums sisters. He then proceeds to have a go at me for not inviting all HIS aunts and uncles and random family members I have not seen in years. I told him its my wedding and I have all the fanily I want there.

Well next thing my aunt is ringing me saying he now doesnt want to give a speech as he wont know any one at the wedding ( this is man who cant keep opinions to himself and has no problem with confidence).

I feel like he is being childish and now just want to cut him out of the wedding altogether. There is a major history between me and my dad and his constant failures this is just tje last straw.

Sorry its soo long needwd a vent.

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Ogg · 03/08/2013 12:54

If you're not old fashioned then put - We all got together and decided on the guest list as it was a family affair, I'm lucky we all got along and it was a nice way to make sure everyone felt happy. Its a shame your dd feels he can dictate who is on the guest list.

Toadinthehole · 03/08/2013 12:58

Justforme: Well, not really. It would have been nice if more of my family could have come, but I couldn't reasonably have complained about that.

Ogg · 03/08/2013 13:01

Sorry didn't see your apology - it was nice and thoughtful

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