to feel sick to my stomach <maybe sensitive>

[WorriedMini]

I've NC for this but am a fair regular. Sorry for the length.

Around a year ago I met a guy for dinner, it was going to be him and his DW and me and my DH. His DW didn't turn up and my DH had to go to work after his main course as he was on call. I stayed as I have known him a while and it was all amicable.

After dinner, we went to the bar and I had my first alcoholic drink of the night (I don't drink with food) which he bought. I was absolutely done after that one drink and totally not myself so I said I was calling a taxi to go home.

Long story short, he took me outside to wait, had me against a wall and tried to stick his fingers inside me. I screamed and he stopped.

This is the bit that makes me sick to my stomach. He has decided to set up a "party bus" business. Basically, taking parties of (potentially) drunk people to another town to visit specific clubs and back again.

He has been putting various comments all over facebook about how he basically "can't wait till all the drunk girls are in the back of his bus" and what a "stud" he is going to be.

Am I over-reacting here? Or should I be worried for his customers safety?

Will he be licensed?

Do you think he might have spiked your drink?

you didn't feel yourself after one drink? he forced himself on you despite both being married. ...did you not report him etc? my gut says he put somthing in your drink.

Oh gosh, what an awful situation to be in. I'm so sorry you had to go through that assault. Did you report it to the police or tell anyone? I understand how hard that can be to do so don't feel bad if you didn't. Does his dw know about any of this? Maybe you could have a quiet word? Is this party bus part of a bigger business? Maybe you could contact his employer and tell them of your c

how awful for you

*concerns? (Sorry, posted too soon)

That's truly sickening. I don't know what on earth you can do without telling DH what happened. Would you?

Did you not tell your DH about it at the time?

Have you socialised with them since?

If you didn't, it's going to be harder for you to do anything about it now.

At the very very least I would call the police (non emergency obviously!!) anonymously and talk to them about it.

How come you are still maintaining conract with someone who sexually assaulted you?

I think you should report this to the police and tell them your concerns.

Sorry if this sounds like an over reaction but remember Levi Bellfield spent years as a nightclub bouncer and taxi driver precisely because this allowed him access to vulnerable young women.

If you report it even if they do nothing at least the report will be there if other allegations are made so they will be taken more seriously.

Go to the police to protect those poor women.

So sorry for what he did to you OP.

What makes you think you are over- reacting?

He tried to assault you and he is declaring his intentions to assault others.

You are under- reacting. I'm sorry op. how awful.

xylem8 what's that got to do with anything?

I'm sorry OP. I agree with the others you should report it to the police and hopefully it will stay on file.

If you went to the police OP, what did they say? If you haven't done so, then my advice is to do so. If you feel that that is a step too far then ask for help from the Samaritans or some other counceling service for their advice. They may well take it out of your hands and report it for you. At least there will be a note on record, if nothing else. you won't be forced to press charges or anything.