my sister has been with her bf 8 months, lovely man she said before they argued because he can come across controlling, she wont stand for it and gave him an ultimatum, remember who hes speaking to or leave was the simple lines of it he bucked his ideas up and shes not mentioned it again.
It was silly things like he would ask when its ok to come round and she would tell him a time that gave her chance to get in from work and he would disagree saying he needed to be there the second she got home and kicked off if she said no, but on telling him plain and simple she wont be controlled it has been ok she said
The other day though she needed the key to his car to go get some stuff from the boot, he said no she wasnt allowed (?) and he would get it she said fine and with that he threw the key at her and said "fucking have it then" it hit her in the face, he reckons it was thrown in temper because she was moody about not being allowed the key, but I was there she just said fine she had no chance to say anything else and it wasnt said stroppily maybe a warely in a couldnt understand why she wasnt allowed it kind of way. He said he didnt throw it at her but to her I disagree and I am quite concerned if he can behave in public like this whats happening behind closed doors
I did speak to my sister but she insists everything is fine, I dont want to push it and push her away but the incident did worry and concern me.