AIBU to finish my marriage over this?

[dontcallmehon]

I posted this in relationships, but feel a bit alone and know that there is higher traffic here. So - AIBU to cut him off completely?

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/1809210-Ex-demanding-money

YANBU, look out for you and your DC's...it's your responsibility and you know you cannot rely on him for support. Your DC's are your first priority.

PS enjoy your holiday with your mum!

I would say that until he gets his problems sorted out, you'd be gambling you and your DCs happiness and security on a deeply unreliable bet.

I also believe it's worth trying to make a marriage work, but that does need the both of you to be trying, not just one person. Until he is ready to start being a husband and father, there is nothing you can do to fix it, and you need to start looking out for yourself and your DCs.

Good luck, and have a great holiday!

YANBU. You sound like a strong person. Only natural to feel flat from time to time, hang in there.

Thanks all. He sent a text apologising but saying that he was just in an awkward position with the guy whose car he damaged now. I ignored it.