When we moved into our current house 7 years ago I was a (vaguely) glamorous twenty something.
Next door had two lads aged about 14.
Because we have low fences we would say hi and chat a little if we saw them in the garden. Both lads would usually blush like mad if I came over to talk to them.
7 years on I am now a sleep deprived frumpy mum of 2 (had ds 8 weeks ago,) Went out into the garden on Friday to hear a nice "hi" and see these two shirtless men who both looked like they had spent many an hour in the gym. As they asked about ds I found myself blushing.
I now realise that I am totally over the hill!
AIBU to think that this is very unfair and should not be allowed?