She s 5yo. I also have 3yo so can compare.
5yo very physically active. Finds it difficult to sit or stand still without squirming. Myself and teacher noticed a lot of daydreaming, lack of concentration, difficulty completing simple tasks such as getting dressed or brushing teeth. Wets self alot. Can sometimes ave several wee accidents per day and then weeks of being dry. Having difficulty making friends. Teacher said that she doesn't seem to know how to play with them and follows them or plays alongside them rather than with them. She also said she is hoping that the reason is that she is younger in the school year. She is very clumsy. Much more prone to dropping stuff and spilling drinks than my 3yo due to constant fidgeting. She has less idea of safety and have to be careful about her running into road but getting better. School work is ok. Reading is ahead for her age. She enjoys reading. Writing is terrible and worse than average. Learning phenomes and spellings pretty good. She has very good memory. Pre school were surprised at how quickly she learnt everyone's names at 4.
I don't mean to belittle anyone's experience of ADHD or upset anyone, but AIBU at wondering if that she may have it or am I being paranoid ? Just need some advice as DH says I'm being paranoid and my friend who is primary school teacher agrees about paranoia. But she hasn't seen dd since she was 3yo.