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I hate BOGOFs, 3 for 2, 4 for 3 and similar offers

31 replies

lljkk · 15/07/2013 18:39

Because usually I only want to buy ONE item, not 2 or 3 or 4 whatever. Or maybe I do want 2 but I don't want 4 yet the offer is only on 4 which will go off before I can consume, and I'm thinking "You bastards, just offer the basic single item at a basic low price, thanks."
This is why I shop in Lidl (except that Lidl had a 4 for 3 offer today, on an item I only wanted one of, and I wanted to screech).
When I only one item but it's on BOGOF, I always think "If you can offer BOGOF then I bet someone else is just plain selling it cheaper for each, I am not going to buy 2 when I only need one so I'll buy something else altogether. I wonder if the shop across the road has it cheaper for single items..."

I don't want to be manipulated.

Do you think I'm mad or does anyone else have the same reaction?

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PuppyMonkey · 15/07/2013 18:41

I just shop in Aldi where it costs about £35 less than Tesco etc each time.

MadameJosephine · 15/07/2013 18:44

It is a bit annoying , esoecially if theres different offers on a different shops and its not always easy to wirk out ehich is the best deal.

Not sure if this is still the case but I lived in the USA in the early 90's and there if they had a 3 for 2 or similar they would sell you one for a third of the price of 2 items so those who either couldn't afford or didn't want to buy in bulk weren't penalised. Not a bad idea

MadameJosephine · 15/07/2013 18:44

Sorry about the typos, on phone and bf DD

beals692 · 15/07/2013 18:46

I hate BOGOFs on items that either a) have a use by date or b) are heavy (when I would struggle to lug multiple items home). It actually stops me from buying items that I had gone into the shop intending to buy as I feel I am being ripped off if I only take one.

Somethingyesterday · 15/07/2013 18:46

It's infuriating. If I buy one at the inflated price I know I'm just subsidising all the two for one sales.

TheBookofRuth · 15/07/2013 18:50

YANBU. It's fine when it's on non-consumables, but how big is the family that can get through, say, two punnets of satsumas before they rot - and how abiding is their love of citrus?

I know this, yet I find it really hard to resist the free one. And if I do manage to, I then have to go to the self-checkout to avoid the following conversation with the cashier:

Them: this is buy one get one free.
Me: yes I know but I only want the one.
Them: but the second one is free...
Me: yes but it'll go off before I can use it so there's no point me taking it.
Them: but it's FREE!
Me: yes but I DON'T WANT IT!!!!

Aargh.

LadyIsabellaWrotham · 15/07/2013 18:52

Drives me crazy. Waterstones 3-for-2 were the worst. I'd go into a shop for one book, find one other that I quite fancied, and then every other book I liked was not included in the desk. I lost count of the number of times I muttered "well sod you then" and walked out empty handed rather than feel ripped off.

LadyIsabellaWrotham · 15/07/2013 18:53

Err "desk" = "deal"

TotallyEggFlipped · 15/07/2013 18:56

If there's a BOGOF offer on a non-perishable item, you could always put the free one in the food collection.

phantomnamechanger · 15/07/2013 18:56

I love a bargain and I love BOGOFs
but I do think its not fair on singles/the elderly who cannot eat or cart around lots of extra shopping

the worst/daftest offer I ever saw was ketchup in asda 2 for £2 or £2.15 each - how does that work? buy being unable to carry 2, you have to pay more than the price of 2 to buy just one???

IneedAyoniNickname · 15/07/2013 18:56

I don't drive, so mum takes me shopping and does some while she is there. Things that are on offer, that we dont want more than 1 of, we split.

daisychain01 · 15/07/2013 18:58

Agreed, its a complete con. I spend less than ever in the big supermarkets as a backlash against them. I use markets and individual stores whenever I have the possibility. TBH life's too short to tot up whether I am saving much money but just on lack of impulse purchases alone, I am spending less. If I do use the big name supermarkets, then I have an aversion to bogofs and use a different brand!

WMittens · 15/07/2013 19:08

If it's something you were going to buy anyway and are happy to pay the normal price for one item, what's the problem? Go about your day.

elQuintoConyo · 15/07/2013 19:10

Patronising as it sounds, I prefer going with DH if he suggests shopping. The number of times he has come back with three punnets of cherries - enough for one summer, or three boxes of Pringles - that's the only time we eat them! I'd just rather not bother.
Unless it's babymilk or washing up liquid or something we use that won't go off - unperishables?

Jan49 · 15/07/2013 19:11

I also dislike BOGOF for the reason that beals mentioned. I struggle to carry the shopping home and I don't want to stock up on extras just because they're on offer but I don't feel I can take only one when the second one is free.

My local supermarket has had tomatoes and strawberries on multi offers but we won't eat them quickly enough before they get too ripe so I buy one pack/punnet and feel a bit cheated.

Itsjustafleshwound · 15/07/2013 19:14

There is a misconception that somehow the supermarket has assumed the liability - it is usually the farmer or manufacturer who shoulders the cost.

Why can it not just be 1/2 price?

LadyBeagleEyes · 15/07/2013 19:16

It's a false economy with food, especially with food that will go off, there's only me and ds.

phantomnamechanger · 15/07/2013 19:20

to be fair, there ARE also plenty of 1/2 price offers or £1 off things, all the time.

I stock upon daz 4 boxes at a time when its half price, we don't use any more of it or any quicker! I do realise I am VERY lucky in being able to without trashing our family budget!

I also frequently give the "free" item, if I would have bought one anyway, to the food bank eg if a 4pk of tinned toms or tuna is on BOGOF, that's a lot (and I dont have much cupboard space either!)so I give away the freebie

pointythings · 15/07/2013 19:23

It's useful with things like shower gel, especially if it's a whole range and you have fussy kids who all like different ones you have storage space, but for perishables it's a pain.

I like the idea of giving the freebie to a food bank.

AmazingBouncingFerret · 15/07/2013 19:26

That's why I like going shopping with my Dad, he'll buy them and I have the free one! Plus he buys me lunch. Win! Grin

caroldecker · 15/07/2013 19:54

The reason they do bogof rather than half price is that you use their products longer before potentially moving to a competitor - often used to combat new product launches

lljkk · 15/07/2013 20:14

Interesting.
All the more reason not to let the bastards manipulate me.

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lljkk · 15/07/2013 20:15

So BOGOF really means... I should hold out buying anything until the competitor's items soon come on promotion at an even better deal. Ace, file that one away for future reference.

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Elesbe · 15/07/2013 20:20

I used to be irritated at this but now just put the extra free one in the food bank receptacle. Win, win as far as I'm concerned!

Scholes34 · 15/07/2013 20:27

I'm always peeved when it comes to BOGOFs that I have to buy double the amount I need, but when I see somthing that's half price, it's such a good bargain that I always buy two!

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