FIL is odd generally. But he was at a party at my parents house for my DD's bday and saw a pic of me they have up from ten years ago when I was younger/prettier/thinner, before I had met dh. HFIL said he'd like a copy of the pic presumably to put up with all the other family pics at their house. I laughed and said that's from before you met me FIL hahahaha as in no way, weirdo but is this an odd reaction from me? Sorry if I am not attractive enough now, or pics of me with your son and grandkids not enough, I think the only people who should be able to have pic of me on their mantelpiece from when I was younger are my own parents and grandparents and perhaps if they really want to when grown up, my kids. I mean I know there is no harm to it, but I still think it is weird.