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to ask if you think people fear crime more than is necessary?

18 replies

SoleSource · 13/07/2013 14:41

I have just watched this video from Yahoo! of people giving their opinions.

uk.news.yahoo.com/video/fear-crime-think-124017270.html

Do you feel crime is under reported in the UK?

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RedHelenB · 13/07/2013 15:06

Nope!

FreudiansSlipper · 13/07/2013 15:16

do i think people fear crime more than necessary. i think some do especially street crime in london. london is a very safe city

do i think crime is under reported, well some crime is domestic violence is. though if you were to read some papers they prefer to report some crimes more than other. the dm reports on women claiming to have been raped (yes a terrible crime) but how many articles are there on men who have been convicted of rape

SoleSource · 13/07/2013 15:18

I do. I have a disabled child and feel vulnerable.

I was mugged in 1998. :(

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StuntGirl · 13/07/2013 15:26

I think people have a higher level of fear than they need to. Crime is actually relatively low, that's not to say it never happens though and it is of course scary when it does. Someone broke into my house while I was in it a few years ago and it unnerved me for ages.

But as a general rule we do not live in the feckless dystopian society some people seem to think we do.

ScooseIsLoose · 13/07/2013 15:30

I do I was held up at gun point 9 years ago and now I am paranoid about everything

NorthernChinchilla · 13/07/2013 15:33

I know that the fear of crime compared to the chances of actually being a victim of crime is hugely out of proportion.

Your chances of being a victim of crime, from a stranger, are tiny- most of this type of crime is committed by young men on young men. Your chances of being a victim of crime by someone you know is higher, sadly, especially if you're female/a child. Crime is also changing- burglary is falling, but the amount of people scammed/defrauded via the internet is increasing massively.

And a fair amount of stuff is report as a 'crime' that is nothing like it- kids playing the street, nuisance parking, etc.

There are huge variations to all of this, dependant on situation, age, location, gender and so on, but as a rule we're safer from crime than we've ever been.

SoleSource · 13/07/2013 15:33

Some car thief broke into my house in 2007 and took the car keys from the bottom of the stairs whilst I was in bed, reading. I've never fet the same since in terms of personal safety.

Scoose :( the bastards

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sheridand · 13/07/2013 15:48

Things are reported in the media much more than they used to be: reading the Daily Fail you'd think that urban Britain was overun with Eastern European gangs and Nigerian murderers. All newspapers blare out child abduction, but it remains true that that particular crime hasn't really risen in decades. You are far, far more likely to be a victim of car injury than a crime.

I lived in Hackney for decades, and was mugged once, and verbally abused , once, for sticking my nose in and stopping a kid nicking a bike. Not bad.

That said, I do feel the "petty" crime rises and falls with the economy and treatment / mistreatment of the lower end of the income scale. Under Thatcher, general burglary and mugging type of crimes rose, as did drug addiction etc, and it looks very much like that is on the rise again.

My local police send an email out detailing local crimes, with postcodes. Now, I live rurally now, but it's really not worse than you'd expect, given that there's nothing for the kids to do and a lot of rural poverty and no jobs. Sheds broken into, cars damaged, that sort of thing. What IS rising, is hopelessness, and that does lead to more petty crime.

I don't feel any less or more threatened rurally than I did in an urban setting, and I don't feel crime has increased. I do remember a flood of homelessness in the 80's, as people lose their houses and the mentally ill fell through the initial "care in the community" and I think we will start seeing the evidence of similar moves and cuts soon, so I am fully expecting a rise in petty theft, homelessness, and random attacks and crimes by people who have fallen through the net of an NHS that's been cut to nothing. I'm also expecting a flood of disaffected youth who no longer have a hope of further education, and lots who are left disillusioned by it, in a few years. Much like my youth.....

zoraqueenofzeep · 13/07/2013 16:02

The chances of being a victim depend on where you live and how vulnerable you are. Some people are very likely to be attacked and are on a regular basis because they are targeted for being elderly/disabled/alone/female/gay looking and live in areas populated by a high proportion of scumbags constantly hunting for prey. They are justified in their fears.

I don't worry about it much because I live in a safe area, surrounded by nice people where crime is very specific to lifestyles I'm not engaged in or vulnerabilities I don't have. That doesn't mean I'm not security conscious, I'm not going to make myself vulnerable with a stupid attitude that'll never happen to me but I know the likelihood is low. I take precautions because anything is possible but I don't need to worry. Many aren't that fortunate.

Whothefuckfarted · 13/07/2013 16:05

Crime is pushed at us from all angles these days. Fear of crime is massive compared to the risk of crime.

Joiningthegang · 13/07/2013 16:31

Fear of crime is generally higher than the likelihood of you being a victim.
Those in the safest areas are often most fearful
If you are a child or female you are at greatest risk whilst in your own home from people you know - particularly from sexual violence or domestic abuse

CarpeVinum · 13/07/2013 16:44

I do.

I was walking along a very familar country road between my house and the villiage, in the middle of the afternoon, having a nice time what with it being just me and time to think. And something horrible happened.

It's been three years and I'm still hyper alert. And I can't walk anywhere anymore on my own. Which I hate, becuase I travelled in exotic bits of the world on my todd and enjoyed the luxuary of total indpeendance. And now I'm scared to walk down to villiage in the least scary bit of the world you can think of unless my husband is with me acting like my personal bodyguard.

That person stole my freedom to be who I was. And I hate him for that above anything else.

SucksToBeMe · 13/07/2013 16:45

Two months ago a lady was murdered in the footpath next to where I live, within 48 hours the police found the man who did it and he lived 50 yards from my home.

I am shocked at how little the community appears to care. It was hardly mentioned in the local news and the lady seems to have been all but forgotten. She was a mother and a wife,but was deemed not important enough to mention,though the local news had a feature on POTHOLES that same night. Angry

chrome100 · 13/07/2013 16:47

I don't have a car and live very near the city centre. As a result I walk everywhere. Some of my friends are horrified that I do this, especially (gasp!) after dark.

Yes, there's a risk but there is a risk with everything and actually, it's minimal.

for the record, I have been sexually assaulted and do you know where that was? In my own home, by three men who burst in. It has not left me with an irrational fear of crime because as awful as that was, I know that it was exceptionally rare, just as it is to be attacked on the street.

Some of my friends will get their husbands to pick them up because it's the evening and therefore, by their reckoning, Official Dangerous. I disagree with this. If you fear crime everywhere you turn, you will never do anything.

SoleSource · 13/07/2013 16:48

Shock Sucks

What was his motive for the murder?

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SucksToBeMe · 13/07/2013 17:00

Sent you a pm, as I don't think he's been to court yet.

SoleSource · 13/07/2013 17:05

Thank you SUCKS I have replied. :)

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cuillereasoupe · 13/07/2013 17:14

I agree that young men are the group most at risk of crime but that's not the impression you get from the media.

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