To ask what the fuck has happened to my face

[MrTumblesBeerBelly]

I look so haggard!!

Had baby a year ago, gone up a dress size from 10 to 12, but other than that nothing has really changed. I'm 34, don't have many noticeable lines or anything but I just don't look like me anymore. My skin looks dull, my eyes look weirdly piggy, and I am getting a bit jowly. The light has gone from my eyes in photos :(

What the fuck is this? And what's the best cure? I have tried a lot of face creams and I'm too scared of surgery. I do get a fairly decent amount of sleep too and my diet isn't terrible.

I'm sorry if I should be posting in style or something, I just can't get over how crap I look!

wow, face yoga, who'd have thought it? Trying it now.

OP, I could have written your post. Same age, same age DD, same thoughts when looking in the mirror... God it's crap isn't it?

Water, exercise, sleep?

I love all this advice, thanks ladies! One question, I can't make tube with my tongue, does it work if I just poke it out a bit?

I look better now than I did a couple of years ago. The constant vigilance of baby/ toddler takes it's toll I think.

And get some blusher :)

Tiredness? Allergies?

My dd1's face lloks odd when she has had an allergic reaction.

Don't think I'm allergic, but had a bit of an epiphany going through photos again today - a few months ago had a few inches off my hair so it sits above my shoulders now and that does tend to accentuate my rather 'round' features- round face, round eyes, so I need to grow it longer asap!