to expect a little support from my dh??

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Not sure if in just feeling a bit sorry for myself but I'm currently in the process of eventually getting treatment for arthritis and I feel like I'm doing it alone :(
Is it unreasonable to expect my dh to even just offer to come with me when I go for tests etc? I also don't feel like I get any support at home, yes he cooks and helps a bit with housework but the emotional side seems just not there. I just keep getting 'you'll be fine once you're on medication' but I don't think he appreciates how tiring and painful this can get.
I just feel lonely really, if it wasn't for my kids I'd feel even worse :(

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Have u actually spoken to your dh and told him exactly how u feel? One thing Iv learned is that some blokes need things laying out as they havnt a clue how women feel

We seem to go round in circles and it always boils down to the usual....he's feeling down because we're not doing the deed enough which is another thing that annoys me. I feel like shit at the minute and its only been about 3wks and I know it's not ideal but the way he goes on makes me feel like not bothering. I don't feel like I'm getting any support and im really worried about my health and then he's upset cos were not having sex enough....just really pees me off!