Not sure, where to start and how honest I should be as I don't want to out myself!
So, I have a friend, we see each other pretty much everyday (unavoidable). Said friend used to be very overweight and has admitted to me that she has and has always had issues with her weight (very big chip on shoulder). She went on to lose about 5 stone. After she lost her first stone, I thought Id like to shift a bit of weight (not much to lose) and have done so.
Ive never had an issue with my weight, it goes up and down, I accepted that years ago! Ive always been super supportive, positive, ive been her shoulder to cry on when she has stayed the same at her weigh in, given tips/ideas, I bought her a gift when she got to goal. Ive always complimented her on new outfits etc etc.
So to the point. Ive really had enough of the jibes, little digs, negative comments, put downs and laughing at me when it comes to my weight/clothes etc. Ive put it down to that big chip on her shoulder and ignored it for several months. A few times Ive said that's not the sort of thing you say to a friend, she laughed and said I know im a nasty cow/rubbish friend.
She now points at overweight people and slates them, as if she is better than them for losing the weight. I pointed out she was once one of them and how would she feel if people judged her when she was overweight.
The comments I get are that she hopes I regain all the weight and she can be thin and smug! she once jumped for joy when I gained one week, makes fun of my clothes, makes jokes about the size of my bum (smaller than hers!!) how I cant steal her thunder, cant outshine her, the look of bitterness as someone says I look great and not to her. I now cant confide anything about myself that I feel negative about as she uses it to mock me...
so what to do.....I really don't want to lose her as a friend but this is brewing..