AIBU to be upset with DH because...

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We were invited to a wedding reception this evening ages ago (his friends).

As it happened to coincide with the Lions match day and DH being a big rugby fan, he wanted to go out watch match with some friends before the reception. All I asked of DH was not to come home from the pub drunk (I never said no drinks at all, just asked if he could stick to a few)so we could go to reception and enjoy ourselves.

I had arranged a sitter (rare treat) a gift, outfit etc. DH turns up very drunk (he's not a light weight drinker either, so would take quite a few) so I decided not to attend wedding reception, as quite honestly was embarrassed and upset he could turn up like this. He went anyway saying that IWBU. Am I? Am feeling sick that he's probably there telling everyone that I'm being a miserable cow. It's not the first time he's done this kind of thing.

Yadnbu!!!!

My partner wouldn't do that, but if he did I would have no problems telling his mum why and I know she would completely back me up and probably give him a right ear bashing! I would have more of an issue telling my mum tbh because i would feel too embarrassed.

My ex partner would do that sort of thing alllllll the time, and I would either just go along to events with him and be embarrassed all night and have a miserable time and normally end the night in tears. Or I would stay home, and just spend the night fuming at him and he would come home, we would have an argument and I would still end the night in tears but at least it wasent in front of an audience!

So I certainly agree that it was probably a safer bet for you to stay at home, either way you still would have had a miserable night.

Hope he is suffering today!!