we have v rocky relationship
yesterday night had nice.time chattin n jokin n i said i wanted to read him something id read online. he was texting his sister at the time. i said do that in a min please.listen to this pleeassee. waited about a min or two...still texting....joking around "what u texting her why dnt u call her...must be serious if u messagin her as they dont chat much....." - so what i would call lovingly bothering n teasin, not getting anoyed n nagging...he just keeps blankin me so i get upset...he says go on then....i read the first of three sentences....he grimaces n rolls his eyes "is this going to b long?". so i just said whatever n shut up. he knew i was upset. (if relevant the content was a cutsie thing about treatin ur partner nicely n not hurtin them cos theyre precious blah). he knew i was upset. i didnt say anything but been off with him when i saw him briefly in morning n to say goodnight. he knew this. so thisevening we have a row about it. im not alowed to get upset over shite. he wil never apologise over it. i need to get over myself and grow up. then throws in if im busy tmro evening which he knows i Am as he now announces he has.plans to go out i.e. implyin i need.to cancel or go out carrying guilt he is missing out.
i feel like why cudnt he just have humoured.me and listen to me for ten secs? wouldnt that be loving?
i can see why this is ridiculous but i think its the context ofwobbly relationship n me being very emotionally fragile n vulnerable thats making me so confused n lost. i.e. this episode has.made.me contemplate suice self harm runnig away etc. whenevrr we have such episodes i feel alone n like a victim n stupid for being abnormally oversensitive n hurt but I Do feel hurt. he is v angry.it was a joke apparently. one said very dismissively n knowing i was hurt....
so lost.