Ok so myself and DH are both only children. Our families hate each other. Our 3 children are close to both sides and so want both sets of grandparents to come to their parties. Our eldest child's party is on sunday and both sets are coming to the party which is a picnic in a park and a horse riding lesson. I am dreading the stress, the atmosphere etc So, I feel really emotional about it I feel like they are robbing me well not just me all of us of what should be a really happy time. I can't see a solution which would be a good one for me, the children and DH (who can see no wrong in his own family). I can see right and wrong in all parties. Any advice?