... because in a year and a half he's been to see DS 3 times cancelled numerous times, hasn't bothered to bring DS so much as a first birthday card but somehow has time to come over when he needs US to have 13 yr old BIL for the weekend, he can come over on a Friday to drop off BIL when i'm at work at DS is at childminders tho. He accussed ME of 'putting a barrier' between him (and his girlfriend) and DS because i'm 'so close' to MIL which is bull I get on with her but only see or speak to her when it is to do with DP or DS...
And the final straw after dumping BIL on us all weekend when he said it would be a Friday only he comes to pick him up when I was at my mums, DP called to say he's at our house when I was at my mums I immediately got DS ready and came home so they could see DS, 14 mins later got nearly to our house when I see them leaving apparently they couldn't wait a few mins because they were tired after the weekend away! He's constantly on the phone saying how he misses DS and will come see him but them something comes up like a friends asked him to go for a drink, he's had a long shift which really hurts DP as he lives 15 mins away and drives so he's only asking for 1 hours of his time.
There is so much more to this but I hate this man and just do not want to see him after how he treats my partner and son AIBU to tell DP I don't want to see him again? DP can do as he likes but I just can not bite my tongue anymore