swearing

[whereaboutinlondon]

My husband swears every few months such as fcking marriage, fcking dinner, for f*ck sake. This this normal?

I'd have probably said "cook your own fucking dinner" in the circumstances.

No he didnt say it but he didnt like I didnt help him making the table.

Don't interfere and annoy someone who has been working hard making you dinner and setting a nice table.

I'd swear too.

Amazed he didn't swear at you to be honest. I think you might owe him an apology

Well surely you all chip in and get dinner ready. If he's cooking why couldn't you set the table.

You could have helped set the fucking table.

Or just turned the fucking hob off.

He said I was moaning about but I didnt moan but tried to make sure he wont forget turning off the hob again.

You sound like a nag.

The reason why I didnt help him make the dinner table was we share house work 50:50. I do my job and making the table is his job.

But as he said, he was still cooking and even if he wasn't just leave him to get on with it.

If you come through and realise the hob is on just turn it off and mention it but no need to go on.

Pick your battles and all that.

Ha ha ha ha

It sounds like it was less what you said but the way you said it. Would have got my back up too.

Your marriage will be a struggle if you take this attitude to household tasks.

As I see he finished cooking because he didnt use the hob again. I dont know why he said he was still cooking.

He's obviously mad.

Divorce him forthwith.

Swearing is not a terrible thing. Swear back at him, you might find it liberating.

Sorry

I would have sworn at you too. Probably along the lines of asking if you were suddenly a fucking Health and Safety officer now and that you could make your own fucking dinner if you were going to interfere all the fucking time when I cooked.

I think he was rather restrained

I'd have sworn at you too to be honest.

It's incredibly irritating being harangued whilst cooking.

Next time he swears at you though, shout "Willy, willy, willy" at him whilst pumping the air with your fist.

That'll learn him.

I understand he didnt swear at me but swear in front of me. Can you give me an example that someone swears at you and in front of you?

"You are a cunt" = swearing at you

"John Craven is a cunt" - swearing in front of you

So is english not your first language? Is it his? What is your background?

catgirl I just burst out laughing.

OP

Cook your own fucking dinner - swearing at you
For fucks sake I can't find xyz - swearing in front of you

To be honest it does put me on edge when my dp swears. Particularly when he can't find something,which is often. I know he's not swearing at me it irritates me beyond belief.

Oh and catgirl I am so doing next time I hear the words "oh for FUCKS SAKE I can't find my..." come out of Dp's mouth.

Never mess with someone cooking especially with health and safety rants.

I'd have told you to fuck off.