Ds 4 year old has bronchitis and an ear infection, I haven't had much sleep the last 2 nights as he's slept across me and is in a good bit of discomfort.
I asked h to sleep in spare room. Yest he slept in until 10.30 and I had to ask him to get up. This morning around 9, after being up with ds since 6 i went into H and asked him to keep an eye on ds while I took a shower.
I came out of the shower to find ds crying in pain in the other bathroom with h still in bed shouting out to him 'aw are you ok ds, come in here'
I tended to ds, he stayed in bed and got huffy when I said he had to get up & mind ds while I went to the chemist.
I came home and he was cleaning the place and doing the laundry but really short with me. Whatever.
Later, ds asked me to cuddle with him on the couch. He was lying on top of me and as I kind of readjusted he started screaming in pain, H shouted at me from other room 'stop doing that to him' 
Ds later was crying and I asked H to reassure him. He wouldn't and I got mad and said fine, you can help or not but don't berate me when I'm taking care of him and just try to be a bit more sensitive to me as I've barely slept the last 2 nights.
He has just brought a load of laundry to the launderette as our dryer is broken and it's raining.
Sorry to rant, I'm just so sick of being disappointed in him whenever anyone is sick or down. It's like he despises me when I need anything from him.
I don't mind taking care of sick ds at all and will happily do everything for him but aibu to expect h to be nice to me while I do it?
He is helping with housework but he's a clean freak and he's annoyed with us making a mess while ds is sick.