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Coincidence, Paranoia or is someone reading my emails?

44 replies

Sleep404 · 26/06/2013 21:16

Today, I sent my family a short video of my 6mth ds crawling and shortly after I received an email from a high street shoe shop with the subject, "first shoes for your crawling boy".
I have never signed up with this company and ds has only been crawling 2 days, so I'm a bit Shock.

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OldLadyKnowsNothing · 26/06/2013 21:19

Did you sign up with Bounty, or something similar? They would know how old your baby is, and thus his likely development.

PS crawling babies don't need shoes.

Sleep404 · 26/06/2013 21:21

Yes, but the email is from Clarks and I always tick the box to say do not share my details with other cos.

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SandStorm · 26/06/2013 21:22

What was the subject line of your email? I'm not an expert but don't companies pick up on stuff like that?

OldLadyKnowsNothing · 26/06/2013 21:23

You may not have ticked the right box, in your immediate postnatal haze. It's far more likely Bounty have sold your details to Clarkes, than that your email is being monitored by a shoe company, honest.

kelda · 26/06/2013 21:25

'They' do pick up on key words in your emails and then you get relevant adverts next to your email.

So yes, someone or at least some computer program, is reading your emails.

Chelsea91 · 26/06/2013 21:26

I got exactly the same email today from Clarks!

theboutiquemummy · 26/06/2013 21:27

Cookies collect your data and track you online then send targeted adverts etc

lborolass · 26/06/2013 21:28

We need to test it out, send yourself emails about pombears and mooncups and see what response you get Grin

Sleep404 · 26/06/2013 21:33

Grin Iborolass. I have only recently learned what a mooncup is Blush, but what is a pombear

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Hassled · 26/06/2013 21:37

It's the wonderful world of cookies. They've picked up key words in your text (when I say "they", I mean the mystical forces, not an actual person) - presumably you typed "here's DD crawling!" or suchlike. It is worryingly spooky - happens to me a lot.

lborolass · 26/06/2013 21:38

Pombears are a type of crisp/snack, totally innocuous but famous on mumsnet after a thread about them. I don't know if the thread still exists but the snack has become part of MN folklore.

Go on, send yourself a email, we need to know if Big Brother is watching Grin

TigOldBitties · 26/06/2013 21:40

Cookies. Its why when you look at a hideous dress on Reiss you find it being advertised on every web page you visit for the next week.

And Shock about not knowing Pombears!!! Google.

Jengnr · 26/06/2013 21:41

I got the same email today. My boy is not yet crawling so no sneaky reading.

I think Bounty are the culprits. Or one of the other million baby sites I appear to have signed up to during my pregnancy :)

Sleep404 · 26/06/2013 21:44

Right, email sent with the heading mooncups and pombears. That should confuse the dastardly computer if it is indeed watching.

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AKissIsNotAContract · 26/06/2013 21:48

I'm definitely not emailing anyone about Viagra or Russian brides but I get plenty of those emails in my inbox.

DoJo · 26/06/2013 22:03

Cookies will only affect the ads you see - they don't make enough information available to third parties for them to send you e-mails, and the cost and time involved in doing so would be prohibitive anyway. This is just a coincidence.

OctopusWrangler · 26/06/2013 22:15

Bounty will have done it most likely. Especially if the form in hospital was filled out by a rep. Expect years of spam.

xylem8 · 26/06/2013 22:52

When I had DS2 15.5 years ago, I deliberately mis-spelt our surname and ticked the no junk mail box on the bounty form .We are still getting junk with the misspelt surname

WilsonFrickett · 26/06/2013 22:59

Yep xylem the bounty rep misspelled my name so I know exactly what spam is down to them. Three house moves later it's finally died down but sheesh... Fecking millions of it.

auntmargaret · 26/06/2013 23:02

It's not Bounty, its the Registrar. Government sell your information all the time.

IneedAyoniNickname · 26/06/2013 23:06

My mum signed up to the cow and gate club with a false edd, because she wanted the free cuddly cow. She forgot to tick the box requesting that they don't send her loads of shit, and she got emails telling her about her child's progress for ages! I think it stopped eventually, I assume because the company assumed the baby was too old for formula Grin

OldLadyKnowsNothing · 26/06/2013 23:10

"The Registrar" doesn't know my email address. Hmm

AmyFarrahFowlerCooper · 26/06/2013 23:13

I had something similar once that creeped me out. I went to Starbucks for the first time in literally four or five years. I'm sat there drinking my hot chocolate and get a text from O2 offering me vouchers for Starbucks. I paid in cash, nothing technological. Do they track us now in some way??

auntmargaret · 26/06/2013 23:15

Old lady, ya think?

Travelledtheworld · 26/06/2013 23:30

They can identify the location of your mobile phone......