tell them off tell them to stoppit

[rosepettel]

womans telling rumers about my dd age 7

aibu

office shitty im trying to think of some thing to do
i wana say to stop but she just takes it as a joke
shes a shitty peice of bitch trouble

It will get worse if you continue to be intimidated. Nothing we say can make you take any of the good advice here until you stop being afraid of the consequences of confronting her.

strop zilla i did contfront her but she takes it as a joke
cant think what to do

Rose I think you should link this thread to the mum's FB page, and then we can tell her for you maybe?

You won't do anything. You've been given good suggestions but you're too bothered by her. Stop bleating about where she lives and pick an action.

Well you have my sympathy op. Is there anyone in RL you can talk to/ back you up? Do your DC have other friends? I would stop my DC seeing this woman's kids, they must see what she is like, think it is normal and the poor things might grow up disturbed like her, sadly.

This is hurting my brain.

strop zilla i did i say things to her but she takes it as a joke
how can i get police wen she lives 3 homes away
that will make it worst
for dds and evrone
kk

Just popped back before i leave for work.

Rose pettel - the fact this woman only lives 3 doors away is EXACTLY why you should be calling the police (non emergency number). You are going to be exposed to her on a daily basis. You need the police to advise her not to intimidate you anymore. Then if she does, they can take further action.

I've called the police on my downstairs neighbour loads of times (noise/loud parties etc). Yes, it's very awkward passing him in the close (communal hallway), but it's worked! I took action because my dd's well being was affected by his constant noise.

Do. Something. Today.

You just have to suck it up and be brave. What is physically stopping you from going to the police station just now except from your own fear?

rember shes a bitch twat peice of trouble

Kk don't talk to her at all. Just cut her out. Block Facebook and make your kids find new friends. Forget the police. If that's not good enough dial 101 for advice. If that's not enough go to netmums and post there for lots of hugs. I'm out as you're clearly only interested in complaining.

turn that frown shes allways like this
get police will make it worst for dds and eveyone

My downstairs neighbour is the biggest prick bitch twat shitty bit of trouble I've ever met in my life.

I still called the police on him.

He came to my door after the police visited and threatened to kill me and dd.

I called the police again.

Now he ignores me. And there's no more noisy parties.

Success.

strop zilla are lifes will be living hells if i got police
remeber she is a trouble maker

shes been a trouble with them before she never does care

It won't.

Because if she continues to confront you after the police have visited, they can take further action. Breaching the peace and all that. A wee night in jail might put the fear into her. If not, yet even further action can be taken against her. What about the ASBO people? What have you physically done to tackle this problem except whinge about it?

Tell her to stop being a twattybollox!

back ground info
last year i did see her tell her older dd to just put them on youre head and walk out about some sun glasses for the woman [shop lifting] i dont wana be bias but it suggests things mabey i dont know

turn the frown shes allways like this she been in a allot of trouble it nothing for her

I've wondered into a parallel universe, haven't I?

Just block her and ignore her. Be done with it. Surely you have things to do OP?

Okay then.

So you're too scared to phone the police.

Too scared to phone the anti-social behaviour squad.

Too scared to delete her from FB.

You continue to send your dd to her house.

You see her every day and just put up with her verbally abusing your child.

Ach. I'm sure it'll sort itself out then.

turn the frown i have said allot to the woman but she take them as a joke

turn that frown her self and her family will make are lifes a liveing hell if i got the police she is a trouble maker like i say