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to complain about dd knocking teeth loose at nursery?

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rubadubduba · 20/06/2013 20:51

When I picked up my 3 year old dd from nursery yesterday, one of the teachers came and told me she had fallen in the gym hall and hurt her mouth, one of her teeth was a bit loose, they had a cold compress on it etc etc.

Dd came out with another teacher, blood over her face and crying, the first thing she said was 'she was going in the wrong place' over and over. By this she means another child was in the wrong place and dd fell over her. The accident form said fell over another child whilst running.

At home, when we'd both calmed down, dd explained to me what happened. There are three areas in the hall, one for running in, one for cars and bikes and one for other games, hopscotch, beanbags etc. Dd and two boys were playing tag, a girl with a car went into the running area and dd couldn't stop running and fell over the girl at speed. Dd landed face first on a wooden floor, the other girl was fine.

We went to the dentist yesterday, have to go back in two weeks as the dentist thinks one tooth is not going to reattach itself, and the next two teeth have been pushed along. Every time I look at dd I want to cry, her face is in such a state.

I'm sorry for the long post but what I'm wanting opinions on is whether to complain to the nursery about the accident. I feel it could have been avoided if the children were in the proper sections. In other words I'm unhappy about the supervision. Not sure if it matters but the girl dd fell over has a reputation for not obeying the rules. And I wasn't told exactly what had happened, if dd had just fallen while running I wouldn't be annoyed. Dd has very strong views on right and wrong and is adamant she wouldn't have fell if she wasn't there.

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rubadubduba · 20/06/2013 21:48

Dd has done less damage to herself falling on concrete. It was because she fell over somebody on the floor her face hit the floor first so if she'd just tripped I doubt it would have been so bad.

By speaking to the nursery about how I feel not complaing as such, wish I hadn't used that word I want to ensure it won't happen to another child. The area is supposed to be safe for running. I know it was an accident, I just feel it could have been avoided.

It had happened 10 minuted before pick up. I was upset for dd, I accepted it was an accident. 'Hope you didn't leave a dent in the floor' kind of thing. It wasn't until I found out what actually happened I questioned the safety.

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CloudsAndTrees · 20/06/2013 21:50

It's completely understandable that you feel like this, and I'm so sorry your little girl got hurt.

While I don't think it's worthy of complaint, the nursery will probably be expecting you to want a chat so that they can reassure you that things are as safe as they can be.

If you say yourself that they have a challenging child in the little girl that your dd fell over, then they are probably doing all they can reasonably do already. Go and talk to them and listen to what they have to say.

If you want to make a judgement about them, make it based on the way they handle the accident, not the fact that it happened. These accidents are inevitable in spaces used for physical play with a lot of young children.

DesperatelySeekingSedatives · 20/06/2013 21:50

I understand why you're upset but honestly this stuff happens all the time. I don't see why it matters that the other little girl has a "reputation". little children forget the rules sometimes. it was an accident after all. What you described could just as easily happen in the park for example, on your watch.

Hope the damage isnt too bad long term.

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