DS has a friend whose house he goes to fairly regularly and the friend also comes to ours. The mum has three boys.
As I picked DS up I went into the kitchen to have a quick chat and the mum proudly showed me her traffic lights behaviour system, with a picture of her sons. Poor behaviour is moved to red and good to green.
Fine - but my DS's picture was there as well, along with another one of their friends! 
AIBU? I really didn't know what to say. DS is well behaved but even if he wasn't, I don't want him being moved to "red" - I'd like to be told myself!