To wonder wtf I was ever thinking with exh?!

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Does anyone else feel this way? I left exh over 4 years ago now, after being pretty miserable for years. We have a 13 year old dd so unfortunately have to have limited contact. I'm very happily remarried. The ex continues to act like the twunt he always was and increasingly I wonder wtaf I was ever doing with him - to the point of feeling physically sick at the thought of it (lol I am pregnant so possibly that's not helping the nausea!)

I don't know what I'm asking really suppose I just wondered does anyone else ever think what on earth was I thinking, why did i marry them, why did I stay so long etc!

Nope I think the same everyday!!

I think lots of people do, yes.

I think loads of people do yanbu.

Know what you mean! I'm normally a reasonably good judge of character, and I don't know how I got it so badly wrong. I blame the oxytocin or whatever it is - I just wasn't thinking straight at all.

Yanbu but try not to dwell, you've moved on.

Glad it's not just me! I don't really dwell on it, has just come to a head after some particularly twattish behaviour on his part over the weekend!

I do all the time, but my kids are older than yours so I have very limited contact with him now they deal with him when they can be bothered, but they have both come to realise what a waste of space he is, which is a shame as he is missing out on his kids growing up , I cant see them being bothered to keep in contact with him when they are adults.